Wednesdays for Women- 11 WAYS TO BUILD UP YOUR SPOUSE ...

To uplift women and encourage them to keep going in their marriage and to love their spouse unconditionally 

"I can live for two months on a good compliment." ~Mark Twain 
Words are powerful, so use them to build up your marriage relationship, not to tear it down. Criticism is damaging ... but don't forget to use actual "words of praise" to make your spouse feel loved. 
Here are some your spouse would love to hear you say... 
1. I love you.
2. I really admire you for... (something specific).
3. I appreciate you.
4. What do you need from me, or what can I do for you right now?
5. Thank you
6. I'm sorry; forgive me.
7. You are the most beautiful woman/handsome man in the world.
8. You are my best friend.
9. Have I told you recently how much I love the way you...(be specific).
10. You rock my world.
11. You look incredible today. 
What are some things you LOVE to hear your spouse say? 


  1. Very nice - just in time for Valentine's Day. Though no one should ever wait for one holiday a year to express their love...

  2. Words are powerful. They can tear us down, motivate us or inspire us. Relationships, of any kind, are challenging. Something as simple as any of these you have listed has the ability to rekindle, reshape and ignite a relationship all over again. Thank you for these! You Rock!!

  3. These are such beautiful ways to speak love over the life of someone you cherish! I tried to pick my favorite one but they are all so good and important. Thank you for this Wednesday love :)

  4. Thank you so much for these! Words are so powerful, and we constantly need them just like food to uplift us. It's so easy to forget pursuing your spouse when you've been married for awhile, but it's a loving sacrifice to each other to say something nice about each other.


  5. Yes words are a powerful tool like others said can be 50/50. Life makes sure that you constantly learn those lessons

  6. This is such great advice! :) Actions always speak louder than words, but the things we say to each other help us to appreciate one another on a daily basis! :)

  7. Thanks for the reminder to be encouraging and loving. God bless! :)

  8. Love this post..it's a great reminder! We are always so quick to knock each other down when really, we are MEANT to build each other up!


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