12.03.2017

Refreshen your home just like saint Nick



On the run-up to Christmas, we see a multitude of adverts urging us to buy before Christmas, take advantage of holiday sales and quickly delivery services. And this doesn’t just pertain to gifts and decorations - but to furniture, appliances and even house refurbishing. And it makes sense, you want Christmas day to be perfect, and for those who have sub-zero temperatures in winter, you need to make sure that your home is ready for that weather, you don’t want to be caught out with drafty windows or a faulty heating system.

With the average family spends many hundreds, if not more, on Christmas, it’s a wonder that people can afford to buy in a whole new home. But, in an ideal world, we would all be able to get the home looking, and feeling, as comfy and cosy as possible for the holiday season.

When you think of Christmas, you think of Santa Claus and his grotto, which is normally a wooden home, with a roaring fireplace, comfy armchairs and lots of snow. His home is built at the North Pole (obviously) and so is centred around warmth and, being the home of jolly St Nick, around family. So, by taking direction from the big man himself (Father Christmas) here is how to refresh your home, in the run-up to Christmas, to make it into the best Xmas destination this year.


Use Wood

In a nod to the traditional log-cottage image given to Santa, use raw wood in your decorating. Using reclaimed wood to create a feature wall, or logs mounted as a fireplace surround, or even as coffee tables, the natural look and colour brings warmth to the room, and introduces some of nature into the home. This will continue with your tree, wreaths and even mistletoe when you decorate for the big day. Make sure that you treat the wood for any damp, or fungus living within the bark, and make sure it’s completely dry before creating anything with it, as the wood will warp as the water evaporates. If you are collecting your materials personally, be cautious of where you are getting the wood from. This time of year sees many creatures go into hibernation, and you don’t want to disturb any of them or the food stores of awake animals, so be careful, especially if there are any snakes in your area.


Fill Space

Christmas is, strangely, the one time of year, we don’t mind cluttering up our homes with things. One practical reason is that it keeps the warmth in. But it also creates a cosier feeling in the home. When popping up the tree and bringing out the decorations, don’t worry about tucking things away. Yes, you need to be still able to use the room, but tucking a tree in the corner, or behind the chair, will just mean that you need to pull everything out and rearrange again when the presents start filling up the space. Make use of levels with your decorations. Instead of just having everything on the mantelpiece and tree, use tall vases to sit on the floor and fill them with baubles - everyone has a box of them that are broken in some way, so use them rather than throwing them away. Match a wreath on the front door with small, potted trees either side of the front step. Hang lights or garlands in the upper windows, to give your home a festive feel from top to bottom - just like the home of the Claus’.


Comfy Cozy

Pull out cushions and blankets and put them everywhere. Not only will you save a little on your heating bill, but it looks so inviting. Traditional Christmas prints, like tartan, and iconic images like reindeer and penguins are perfect for this time of year. When you visit Santa, he always has a thick throw about him, so you should too. Candles are perfect year-round, but the scents that you can fill your home with making it even cozier. If you have a multitude of unscented or vanilla candles, then, rather than buying new ones, pop them in a dish and fill the dish with cinnamon sticks, pine cones or cloves. As the air heats up around them, the perfectly Christmas scents will be released. You can also tie cinnamon sticks around a pillar candle and get the same effect. (This trick can be used at any point in the year, with coffee beans, dried rose petals and dried apple slices.)


Nibbles

He isn’t fat by accident, Santa loves his nibbles. Which is why every home leaves out a snack and drink for him on his journey each year. Biologically speaking, the human body naturally craves more food over winter - even if you live in a hot country. This is partially affected by custom, as our bodies are used to snacking on all the delicious foods we deny it the rest of the year and it becomes an annual habit. But it is also because nature is telling us to eat as much as we can so that we survive the winter - evolution hasn’t quite caught up with us on that. And with the cold weather, visiting family and longer nights, it just makes sense to eat in rather than going out as much as you would in the warmer months. Traditional Christmas nibbles can be particular to each family, but many come from the Victorians who revolutionised the holiday. Having a bowl of shelled nuts on the table, advent calendars and even a rise in oranges aren’t unusual sights in a home over the holidays - the oranges if only because they’re destined for the mulled wine.


Fire Place

Where would Father Christmas be without a roaring fireplace? Both in his grotto and while delivering presents, a fireplace has always been a fixed image relating to Santa. A log fire lets off the most amazing smell and fills the whole home with warmth. Building one isn’t cheap. However, it does involve adjustments to the building itself to make way for the bigger grate and chimney liner, pro chimney liner and flu. If you don’t, or can’t, build a fireplace, then jazz up the one you have, or create the illusion of one with an oversized mantelpiece or surround, using vases and candles to create the look, and, if needed, replacing the existing heater or radiator with a faux-fireplace.

Worrying about your kids is natural, but when should you really be concerned

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When you're the parent of teenagers, you're almost certainly going to spend at least some of your time feeling at least a little bit worried. After all, this is the point in their lives when they start really wanting their independence, when they start wanting to be treated like adults, and when the first hints of rebellion start creeping in. Of course, it's only natural to want what's best for your teenager, but most of the time you'll find that you don't really need to be that worried at all. Most kids get through this part of their lives pretty unscathed as long as you're there to support and have a little faith in them. Of course, that's not always the case. With that in mind, here are a few ways to tell if you need to be seriously concerned about your teenager.

Their grades are slipping

Let's face it, grades aren't everything and putting too much pressure on your child to succeed academically can be a mistake. However, if your child seems to suddenly start doing way worse at school than they were before, it's worth at least trying to get to the bottom of why that is. It might be because they're struggling to keep up, that they're getting distracted, or that they're taking on too much. Whatever the reason is, there are always ways that you can help them work through it and make sure that they're always doing their very best.
If the problem is behavioural, ensure you go about it in the right way as resolving conflict with your teen can sometimes lead to further problems of mistrust. Use the guides available online to help inform you as to how to help your child when their grades are falling and how to resolve conflicts with them if they do arise.


Their health seems to be declining

Your teenager's body is probably going to be going through a lot of changes that they might not fully understand.  For example, they might need help with period cramps or other body changes."However, if it starts to seem as though the physical changes that they're dealing with are more serious than normal puberty, it might be worth being a bit more concerned. Plenty of teens struggle with things like mental health issues, eating disorders, and even experimenting with things like drugs. No parent wants to think about it, but it's not something that you should ignore. If you're really concerned then checking them into a teen treatment centre might be a wise choice. This can be a tough topic to broach with your child, but it's worth being open and honest with them as much as you can.   They're associating with people you don't trust

Your teens are going to make friends that you don't really like. That's just the way of the world. Perhaps it's a friend who you're not sure about, or maybe you don't approve of their new boy/girlfriend. The key is to try and figure out if it's just your personal feelings or if it's because they're a genuinely bad influence on your child. After all, just because you're not their biggest fan, doesn't mean that they're actually bad news.

Realising that your teenager may be in more trouble than you thought can be an incredibly tough thing to deal with. However, the worst thing that you can do is to freak out. That's only going to make things worse. The best thing that you can do is make sure that you're there for them and that you care about them.

12.02.2017

Creating a cozy home in time for christmas

The holidays are here; the countdown to Christmas is on, and kids (of all ages) are excitedly waiting to see what the big day will bring. Your mind is probably thinking about how you’re going to navigate all the shopping that needs to be done, taking care of visiting relatives, and how you are going to stock up on all the food and drink that will be consumed. Aside from the Christmas tree, lights, and perhaps some garlands; taking care of household admin and tasks may have slipped to the bottom of your priority list. However, ensuring that you’ve got a safe, well-maintained, and cozy environment for the festive season and into the new year will help you to relax and enjoy all the parties, gift-giving, eating, and merriment.

The last thing you want to happen is problems with the function or comfort in your home during the holidays, especially when it’s an issue that might not get resolved until the new year. Therefore, it’s worth taking some time to look at each area of your house and work out what might need some attention sooner rather than later. Roll up those sleeves, rope in the rest of the family, and write down a household priority list to tackle as soon as possible; even if it sparks some ideas for the new year, you’ll feel confident that your home is performing as it should over winter. The following are some tips, ideas, and inspiration for those who want to create a cozy house in time for Christmas, and be safe in the knowledge they’ll have a warm and comfortable winter ahead with their family.


Hot Water, No Leaks, And Toasty Feet

During the winter months; houses of any age can suffer from freezing temperatures. Therefore, you’ll need to ensure that your pipes and plumbing are in great condition and water is able to travel quickly and efficiently throughout your home. A frozen or burst pipe will lead to minor or major flooding in your home and result in a cold and damp environment that nobody wants to reside in. If you’re unsure; it might be worth contacting a plumber for your home who will be able to tell you more about the condition of your plumbing and prevent any issues in the future. It’s also worth having the contact details of an emergency plumber who will come out at any hour so that you’ll have peace of mind and won’t be fretting each time the pipes make an unusual noise (it’s winter; it can happen).

Your boiler and heating system also need to be up to scratch so that the whole family can enjoy hot showers and warm baths during the frosty months. Trying to get the kids washed in cold water is an ordeal that no parent should have to put up with, especially during the festive season. Therefore, get someone in to check your boiler and ensure that it’s in great working order for another year. If you’re lucky enough to have a working fireplace; you’ll want to hear the crackle of wood and feel the warmth of the flames throughout winter. Fireplaces always need to be cleaned out properly, and it’s worth investing in annual sweeps of your chimney (it’ll also ensure that Santa can make his way down safely).

Stock up on the little touches that can bring extra warmth to your cold evenings in front of the T.V, or early nights to bed. Hot water bottles for the family, a thick winter duvet, and plenty of blankets and throws will ensure that you’re all able to get cozy, without using up too much household energy so that you can save your money. You can invest in warming pads for your pets; your cat or dog will love snuggling up onto a warm bed of their own, and they’ll be less inclined to jump up onto yours to stay warm. It’s also always a smart idea to have some backup heaters that you can plug in should you need extra heat, or if something goes awry regarding your heating; you’ll always be thankful for cozy insurance policies.

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Warm Up Your Senses

If your home is filled with all the things that make you and your family feel snug and warm; you’ll have created a cozy home that will be comforting beyond the festive season and into the new year. The new year is a great chance for a fresh start; however, it can sometimes feel a little bleak when all the Christmas decorations have been taken down. Therefore, start putting things around your home that will last beyond Christmas, but that will add warming charm and plenty of character. As previously mentioned; blankets and throws are a great way to bring physical heat to your family. However, they can also provide a pop of color and prints that are fitting with the winter season. Throw in some cushions to match, and you’ll all be able to sink into softness when you’re watching your favorite Christmas movies.

Lighting will make a huge difference to your environment; so, invest in warm laps, string lights, and even a dimmer switch for your living area so that you can make a space feel relaxed and inviting. Again, it’s worth contacting a professional to come and review your electrics, so speak to a reputable electrician and ensure that there are no power outages at crucial times over all the festivities. Candles can bring a cozy flicker and a delicious scent to a room, so get into the habit of lighting them when you get home and fill our home with the smells of baking or winter foliage. Tea lights dotted around the darker areas of the home will also add interest to neglected places and ensure that each bit of your house feels homely.

If you’ve checked your house is in great working order, stocked up on warming items, and added the cozy touches everywhere; you’ll have a lovely, laidback Christmas, and will be able to stay comfortable throughout the new year.

12.01.2017

Small changes to lifestyle, big changes to life

We all want to be the best versions of ourselves, to be living a life that we’re proud of and happy with. Alas, ‘real life’ can sometimes get in the way of that goal. When we’re running only on autopilot, it can be easy to fall into habits that work against us. In most aspects of life, there’s a better alternative; but we need to know what that is first. Below, we take a look at a few easy to change lifestyle factors that’ll improve your life in no time.

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Reduce Your Tech Use


Yes, technology has been good for humanity, and there’s no need to cut it out of your life altogether. However, just because it’s good doesn’t we have to use it all the time. There are downsides to overusing our smartphones, tablets, and laptops. If you find yourself spending too much time looking at a screentime, make a conscious effort to scale it back: you’ll find there’s a whole host of benefits spending an evening with a good book in front of your face rather than a screen.

Rethink the Essentials


Forget the big things: it’s the small things that make up life! And if they’re not right, then they’re going to have a massive impact on our lives. Take your sleep. If you’re not getting a full night of quality sleep, then there’s only so much you’ll be able to do during your waking hours. Take a look at the food you’re eating, too: is it really as good for you as it could be? Even your period can be altered. Take a look at this Pixie Cup review, and consider investing in a menstrual cup. It might be a small change, but it might make a massive difference to your quality of life when it comes to your time of the month. It’s about rethinking the essentials, and seeing if there’s something better available.

Stop Complaining


If you’re one of life’s complainers, it’s time to cut it out. While you might think it’s cathartic to have a moan about your working life, relationship, or anything else, you’re really just putting yourself in a negative cycle that won’t lead anywhere! So stop complaining, and become a doer. If you can change something, then go ahead and change it. If you can’t, then learn to live with it: you’ll be happier, and so will the people who have to listen to you.

More Fitness


Yes, you probably already know that you need to be getting your full dose of exercise. But the truth is, most people can do more than they actually end up doing if they just make some small changes. Instead of driving everywhere, consider walking. Squeezing those extra moments of exercise into your daily schedule might not seem that effective, but if they become part of your schedule you’ll notice the difference in your health!

Five Minute Tasks


Finally, let’s think about procrastination. Everyone’s guilty of it, though some are worse than others. If you have a task that takes less than five minutes, do it straight away. It’s a small hack that’ll ensure you get much more done throughout the day!
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