1. Forgiving means not bringing that old infraction up every time you have a new fight. Let it go.
2. When you’re having an argument, listen to understand, don’t listen to find loopholes so you can win. Marriage is either a win/win or a lose/lose. You never win by beating someone else down.
3. Agree to disagree. Sometimes you just won't agree 100% on everything in marriage. Choose to agree to disagree without holding it against your spouse.
4. You've heard it said that the three keys to being successful in real estate, is "location, location, location." The three keys to being successful when there's conflict in your marriage are, "forgiveness, forgiveness, forgiveness."
4. You've heard it said that the three keys to being successful in real estate, is "location, location, location." The three keys to being successful when there's conflict in your marriage are, "forgiveness, forgiveness, forgiveness."
Forgiving others is SO important
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I love this post, being forgiving is one of the things I needed to be delivered from when I gave my life to Christ. I use to feel like I didn't have to forgive anyone if they wronged me but I realized the forgiveness wasn't for them it was for me. It allowed me to be free to move on.
ReplyDelete#2 is a good one! I caught myself asking the same thing over and over in different ways bc I wanted him to answer it a certain way so I could be right. I was glad I caught myself doing this so I could correct course and great a win/win!
ReplyDeleteForgiving the big and small.amen
ReplyDeletelove it especially #1 as that is the one that seems to always be present when you say sorry it is over we accept and give apologies
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We must forgive as Christ forgives us. #3 can be tough, but it is good when we have our own opinions it makes for a healthy relationship
ReplyDeleteThis is very simple yet very good. Forgiveness, compromise, support of your mate, all are so important to our success.
ReplyDeleteOur country needs to be putting this into practice right now!
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