10.06.2017

Create A Garden Paradise For You And Your Kid

The garden is the best place to spend some quality family time. Kids love to play and use their imagination to the fullest in a safe place such as the garden. But the thing about gardens, is they don’t really offer much. They’re usually just spaces of wasted grass, with possibly a greenhouse, or an out house. You could do so much more with it, and make it a sanctuary for both you, and your children. Take a look at these cool ideas.
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A Treehouse

The ultimate dream for a kid. A treehouse brings to life so much imagination, and they’ll be the envy of all their friends. You’ll obviously only be able to do this one if you have a dense, wide and round, big enough tree. You can either buy the treehouse online, and get it installed. Or you can attempt it yourself and use it as a huge DIY project. If it’s the latter, you’re going to need a few tools. A chainsaw, a chainsaw sharperner (If you don’t have any of these, check out reviews on https://bestofmachinery.com/best-chainsaw-sharpener-reviews/, some screws, a hammer, and safety gear. Chainsaw down any low hanging branches that might sit in the way. Then follow an online guide to help you through. Once completed, follow your own rigorous safety checks, and make sure everything is reinforced.

A Pond

This is a feature that will make both you and your children happy. A built in pond is such a pretty addition to any garden. It’s up to you whether you get a professional to do this, or attempt it yourself. It may be better for a professional however. Take your kids to pick out some colourful fishes, and you can pick out little pond ornaments to really make it aesthetically pleasing. You could even add the nice touch of a water feature going into the pond! It’ll help get your kids interested in nature, and help to teach them the importance of cleaning and maintaining things. For inspiration pond ideas, check out this pinterest board https://www.pinterest.com/shellegirl/gardening-water-features-fountains-ponds/

Flowers

This one is more for the adults, but seasonal flowers are the best. With fall upon us, it’s most likely going to be the case that your summer flowers are dying out. So head to your local gardening store, and ask an employee for advice on which flowers will last the winter. Pick out the most colourful one’s you can, and get planting! You can get your kids to help with the planting process as well. Be sure to plant them nice and early before the soil spoils. Before you know it, you’ll have a bright lovely garden that’ll be the envy of all your friends, rather than the kids!

Accessories

A final, but vital point. Accessories such as wind chimes, little character ornaments etc. are great. Let your children pick out some disney themed ornaments, and dot them around the pond. You could even purchase a few hanging baskets and fill them with pretty flowers. Attach them to the treehouse, and you’ve made yourself a beautiful garden. For more ways to improve your garden, check out this post http://www.terri-grothe.com/2017/10/why-less-is-more-in-garden_3.html

10.05.2017

The Definitive 'Moving Home' Guide


Moving home can be a very stressful experience. Actually, scratch that; it is a very stressful experience. There’s no dancing around that fact. Deciding that it’s time for you and your family to move to a new home, or one of the great homes for sale at the Delaware Beaches or wherever you are moving to, is the easy part of the decision. You knew that the place was becoming too small, the house was too old, or there was a better job elsewhere. You might have had to discuss it with the family, of course, but that will have been an easier decision that planning the actual move to the new home in itself.

This definitive ‘moving home’ guide should make everything much easier for you, however. It might be the case that not every point will apply to your specific situation, but the pieces of advice mentioned throughout are certainly good general tips that should help with the majority of moving processes. Here are the steps you should take once you’ve decided you’re ready to move house.

Find your new home.

Obviously. You can’t really move out of one house until you’ve found a new one to move into. You should base your property hunt on the reasons as to why you’re moving out of your current house. If the reasons for moving out of your current home are that it’s too small then you need to not only choose a new house which is spacious but one which will continue to be spacious in the future.  You can learn more about buying a townhouse off- plan if this is something that appeals to you, although it means you'll have to wait until construction is finished to move. It all depends on your family situation. If your kids are still young then you need to think about whether the house you’re moving into will be big enough for them as they get older. And if you’re planning to have more kids in the future then you need to factor that into your decision too. If it's just you and your partner wanting a change of scenery, then taking a look at a gorgeous Monaco apartment may be more suitable for your situation. It's all about finding what is going to be the right decision for you.

Perhaps you’re heading to a new area for a certain school or job opportunity which narrows down your property hunting radius anyway and maybe you want to check out new construction homes. Whatever the case, you should certainly make sure that you’re choosing your new house based on more than its interior design. The way the house looks in itself is obviously important when you’re moving home but you need to think about practicalities too, such as the distance from your home to your workplace or the local school, shops, and other amenities. Finding the ideal home is great but it may be all for nothing if the location is bad. You should also do research into the neighborhood before you buy too. Is it a safe area? Are you living around families like yours or younger adults whom you’d rather weren’t your neighbors? Price will also most likely play a big part in your decision if you’re wary of your financial situation, so you might want to see if there’s a HDB BTO launch in your area. Public housing can definitely be a smart financial option. The point is that there are many factors to consider before you take the plunge into a big family move.

Get the whole family involved.
The most important thing to remember is that it isn’t just the adults who are affected by this big move; you have to think about your entire family. As we’ve discussed before on this site, it’s crucial to keep your children involved throughout the moving process. They might be struggling with the thought of moving away from their friends, even if it’s not a very distant move. Even if they don’t show any visible signs of distress, they might simply be struggling with the concept of moving out of a home which has been a comfortable and cozy environment for them for many years (or their entire life, depending on how young they are).

If you give your children the responsibility of being involved in discussions concerning the move then this will make a huge difference. It’ll remind them that they’re just as important in this process as the parents of the family. They won’t feel as if they’re being forced out of one home into another. Let your kids walk around the new property with you before you move in. Let them get a feel for their future home so that they’re a little more comfortable about the prospect of the big move. You should also let them take charge when it comes to packing their own things; tell them that they can choose what to throw away or keep as it’ll be a valuable lesson for them when they’re an adult and moving into a new house on their own. You should remind them that they can Skype their old friends and go back to see them on weekends. However, you should also invite children over from the new neighborhood for a housewarming party so that your kids can make new friends.

The move.
Moving day is going to be one of the most stressful days of the entire moving process. You might have had all the plans in place for weeks or months and spent a lot of time packing but the actual day of moving itself is going to be stressful. It’s important that you figure out how you’re going to do it. If you need to hire a mover then you need to make sure you hire a reputable company. Of course, if you’re doing it yourself or with the help of friends then you need to make sure that you know what you’re doing in terms of securing all your possessions and not damaging them in the journey to your new home.

Settling in.
The final part of the moving process is settling into your new home. When you find yourself standing in this alien place with all your possessions neatly packed into little boxes, this property might not feel like it’s yours yet. It might feel as if you’re a stranger in somebody else’s home. That’s why it’s important to pack an overnight bag and a box full of “initial items” that you’ll need. You want to be able to unpack all the most important things as soon as you arrive for practical reasons but also so that the house doesn’t feel so empty. Once your main possessions are unpacked, this strange new house will already start to feel like your home.

The Most Insidious Dangers Of Home Moisture



So, you’ve finally done it. You’ve saved, planned, and have finally managed to afford the home of your dreams. Well done! A lifetime of happy family experiences is yours for the taking, and the home will develop and reflect your family's changing story over the many upcoming years. However, that doesn’t mean you should take this for granted. Taking care of your home is one of your new responsibilities. With the title of homeowner, you are now no longer able to rely on your landlord of apartment complex authority to come and resolve maintenance issues. They all fall to you.


As with anything in life, foresight teaches gently, while error teaches brutally. For this reason, it’s important to identify the worst offending issues which can have very harsh effects on your budget and your general happiness until they are resolved. They can even threaten your safety, and in your home space, the place you should feel most secure - that’s unacceptable.


The worst offender of all? Home moisture. Water or excess moisture where it’s not wanted can severely hinder the safety and health of a property. For this reason, making sure you implement various strategies is important. The dangers you could be subject to as a result of excess moisture are as follows:


Rot & Damp


Rot (an extreme version of damp,) occurs when moisture is left unchecked in a wall for too long. Over and above the mould which can grow and give off spores (potentially bringing ilness with it,) it can severely undermine the structural integrity of the materials keeping the wall up and sturdy. For this reason, you preferably want to keep some form of decent home insulation. You should look for the problem areas in your property, the places which you rarely go but are likely to develop a problem left unchecked over time.


We’d recommend opting for a smart crawlspace insulation strategy, such as those offered by www.crawlspacecharlotte.com/ With an adaptable and complete service such as this, you’ll be able to rest easy knowing that not one unwanted bead of moisture will find its w way somewhere you’d rather it didn’t. This could even help you save your energy heating costs in the process. For areas of the home which are more accessible, try to keep them well ventilated during the day. Damp occurs when moisture has no means of escaping, so it rest on the easiest surface it can and will blossom over time. Ventilation prevents this.


Electrics


Your electrical wiring will need to be correctly insulated, using silicon around the plugs to keep them watertight. If water is exposed to your electrical circuit, at best your fuse box will detect the issue and switch off. At worst it will cause an electrical fire, and this can be difficult to overcome. To begin with, prevent the potential issue by keeping an eye on your electrical switches for signs of moisture. Teach your family how moisture around these implements could be dangerous. Keep extension cords and power leads out of potential harm's way. Most importantly, store electircal fire hydrants specialized to stop the fire with foam, as water will work in the opposite intended way here. Be sure you know where your fuse box is and instruct yourself on its use. Every five years, hire a home inspector or electrician to oversee and confirm the structural safety of your home.

With these tips, you’re sure to have a much safer and moisture free household.

Hold Onto Happiness With These Creative Pursuits

In case you were in any doubt, life really does pass by in a blur. And, never does time go faster than when you’re happy. It’s the ever elusive goal, right? But, it doesn’t have to be that way. There are plenty of ways to capture and hold on to those moments which mean the most. Whether you most love traveling alone or spending time with family, you can keep it all close to your heart. All you need to do to achieve the goal is turn your attention to creativity.

We all know that creating is good for us in a variety of ways. It broadens our horizons and satisfies our needs. But, it also helps us hold onto happiness. After all, nothing captures memories as well as creating something from them. And, here are the creative paths which can help you get a firm footing on your favorite moments.

Photography

Let’s start with a literal one. Photography quite literally allows you to capture moments and keep them close. It’s a fantastic medium, and one you can’t use enough.
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is especially true if you have young children. Capturing them on camera is the only way to hold them in time. Otherwise, they’ll grow without a trace.




With Instagram and Snapchat, we all like to consider ourselves budding photographers. Wherever you are, you can pull your phone out and get snapping. But, it may also be worth hiring a professional photographer to shadow your family for an hour or two. The trouble, of course, is that phone photos are commonplace, now. There’s nothing special about them. By comparison, professional photos are sure to capture your heart. They can take pride of place in your home, and forever remind you of an amazing time in your life.

Make mementos

Mementos also make fantastic creative reminders and are the ideal choice for people who travel a lot. In many ways, adventures can feel like constant farewells to places we grow to love. But, if you make a memento everywhere you go, you’ll never have to say goodbye completely. You can forever hold onto a piece of the place.

What memento you make is up to you. You could create a collage of receipts, a picture using seashells, or a scarf knitted with local wool. If possible, create something which reminds you of the way the place made you feel. Somewhere reflective, for example, could be best recreated in a painting.




Journal

Journalling gets a bad rep as something only kids do. But, it actually has tremendous creative power for people attempting to capture moments. In fact, many of the best writers out there keep avid journals. Even Kurt Cobain was a journal writer!



The best part about this art is that it allows you to capture and reflect upon every moment as it happens. As such, it ensures you appreciate happiness when you have it. And, those entries also provide a way to look back. It’s the best of both worlds.

Happy 3rd Birthday Norah Rose

3 years ago your beautiful face entered this world and my life has been changed since.  

Norah Rose – you’re three years old today.
You are spunky, and hilarious. You have a laugh that lights up the whole room. You love your brother, your sister and your baby dolls.  You love food and there is nothing you don’t like. 

You are a mommy sook, Daddy's girl, Auntie’s little love and this is my favorite age so far. You’re not as cuddly, but I’ve always loved spunk more than snuggles. You have opinions and you understand right from wrong and your temper tantrums usually have me in stitches. I want you to stay little, but then I change my mind, because I can’t wait to see you grow. Who you become. I am so proud of the person you’re going to be already


So Norah Rose here we are, another year and sweeter than ever. Enjoy your bike and your birthday presents, Auntie loves you immensely. 




10.04.2017

Most Common Blogging Mistakes & How to Avoid Them

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With so many different blogs cropping up every day, it’s easy to think that anyone who is anyone can just tap away and become a blogging sensation overnight. Think again. There are many reasons that blogging has become as popular as it has over the last few years, however that doesn’t mean to say that there isn’t a knack to getting it right. Quite a few people who want to start blogging for real will look at buying a domain name so they look professional. If you have one in mind but not sure if it already taken, you can use this handy, whois Lookup tool help you see if it is available.


Any true blogger will know that anyone can start a blog, but the real challenge is to get those all important readers. And that is where the real magic happens. So if you are keen to find out how to build up that loyal readership, by avoiding the common pitfalls, then read on.


Putting SEO First


We have heard of little else than SEO over the last few years and when starting with blogging it is easy to understand why bloggers may find it confusing to know how to go about it. After all how will readers find you unless you are ‘talking their language’ right? Well, yes and no. Of course SEO is important but not to the detriment of really good content. Any blog should have the human reader in mind as the priority over the search engines, so bearing this in mind is a good place to start.


Great Content is Enough


On the other end of the spectrum, just believing that your content alone is going to sell your blog is also not going to get you very far. You may be writing the most wonderfully informative, humorous or compelling copy in your area, but if no one knows about you then it will all just be lost, floating around somewhere unread on the great wide web. Therefore you need to make sure that you are approaching blogging as a constant learning curve. Research blogging tips and marketing sites and really get your head around what works and what doesn’t. Constant research will help you to better understand how to find the right balance between SEO, content and marketing that will really get your website off the ground.


Telling Stories About Your Life


The problem about blogging is that it feels so personal to us that we find ourselves feeling more and more compelled to open up and share information about ourselves and our lives. Although blogging is all about stories and sharing information, there is a line that should rarely be crossed. Getting into the habit of telling stories about our personal lives is heading down a rocky road. Unless your stories are either incredibly exciting or very informative, that will allow others to learn from your mistakes or achievements, try to leave the personal, every day anecdotes to a minimum.


Forcing Yourself to Write Every Day


There is one sure fire way to clog up those creative juices and that is by telling yourself you must be producing top-notch content on a daily basis. That is just too much pressure for any blogger to take. Instead plan out manageable chunks of time per week, at a time of the day when you feel your most productive and get into your tasks feeling fresh and ready to start. Piling on the pressure and overdoing at the beginning is a sure fire way of burning yourself out too soon.


Waiting for Your Traffic to Grow


One of the most common mistakes bloggers make is to sit back and wait for the traffic to start rolling in. When the traffic doesn’t come, bloggers then become despondent and demotivated and it can then be difficult to find the motivation to keep moving forwards. As all the above points have stressed, the process of learning how to get that traffic to grow is a huge learning curve of balancing many different skills. Therefore if the traffic isn’t coming then that it is a sure sign that you there is something in desperate need of tweaking or adapting.

So instead of obsessively waiting for that all important traffic to start coming through, commit yourself to constantly playing around with different formats, styles, marketing campaigns and offers until you find a formula that finally starts to take hold. Creating a fantastic blog is not a sprint, it is a marathon. So if you want to be in it for the long haul then you will need to put in the hard work to exploring all the weird and wonderful tricks that will make your blog unique and get your readers coming back time and time again.
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