Marriage Mondays- Your Spouse- Your Best Friend

Your Spouse- Your Best Friend

I remember growing up if someone wasn’t your best friend, you were insulted..

You needed this person to be your Best friend because well you just did and you need that special friend growing up

Then when you grow up and realized this person really is not your best friend, you have not talked to them in several years, now you realize the person you really thought was your best friend, really could care less about you, you are facebook friends but yet you have no idea what’s going on in her life.

Then you meet the Love of your Life- the person you have waited forever for, the person you want to spend the rest of your forever with, you know that you can share everything with this person… or can you…

Most females can name another female that they are really close with, like myself- my friend Ashley is my best friend and she is perfect for the role, but besides her, things I tell no one but my spouse shows me that he is my best friend, Ashley and I are friends and we have things we only talk to each other about, but at the end of the day, my best friend is the man who owns my heart..

It was not always like this for me, I always felt to ‘shy’ to share my deep dark secrets with, then one night I was very upset over things that had happened to me in the past, that  no one knew, not Ashley, not my parents, then I realized it is ok I can share it with him, he needs to know this part of me, he needs to understand why I feel the way I do, after I shared that with him, I felt so good, he held me while I cried, even though it was something from my child hood, he was right there while I got thru it.

Now I do not hesitate to tell him anything, because you know what, he is my ROCK, he is the one I can turn to when the storms of life are pounding me,  and I also have Jesus as my ultimate best friend but my husband is def top of the list.


  1. This is so sweet. What a great post for right after Father's Day!

  2. Lovely sentiments perfect for Father's Day week.

  3. Our husbands are always there for us 24/7. We need to show them that we love them.

  4. I feel so lucky - my husband is my best friend, too! He has seen me at my most vulnerable and at my best, and no matter what he is always the one who is still there. Beautiful post!

  5. Being married to your best friend is a wonderful gift… not everyone experiences it but those of us that have know how lucky we are.
    Great post!

  6. My husband is my best friend. My daughter just asked me today who my best friend was and I was so glad I could say my husband was.

  7. So true. I feel the same way. We share so much with our husbands good and bad, and with everything we share we get closer. Great post.

  8. My husband is my best friend too. I am so glad I have him to share life with :)


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