Marriage Tip # 4-

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Week 4 of Marriage Tips 

You can find the previous weeks by clicking on the week
Week 1- Dating/Courting
Week 2- Communication
Week 3- Fall In love, Over and Over
Week 4-  Divorce

Never say the “D Word”. 

 If you’re gonna say it, you better mean it. Plain and simple, threatening divorce is not fighting fair. I did this a lot when we first got married, if we had a argument  it meant our marriage was over and I was asking for the Big D,  I’m not proud of it, but I learned better. I was hurting deeply, and I wanted to hurt back, but it never helped me feel better.

I never did mean it anytime I said it, so one day he had enough and said to quit using it because it is making him think I really want a divorce.. 

12 years later and I fall more and more in love. 

Matthew 19:4-6

"Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,'  and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh' ?  So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."