1.22.2026

Ensuring Compliance: Legal Standards for Preventing Staff Misconduct'

 Businesses and organisations have a legal and ethical responsibility to ensure that their team acts professionally and follows established rules. Staff misconduct can have serious consequences, including legal liability and reputational damage, as well as financial penalties and, in extreme cases, criminal charges.

Understanding legal standards and implementing proper compliance measures will protect both your organization and the people that it serves. No matter the type of business that you run, you need to understand how misconduct in institutional settings can escalate quickly if oversight is weak, particularly where prison misconduct information is concerned. While this example comes from correctional environments, the lessons apply broadly to businesses, non profits and government organisations alike. Legal standards exist to prevent misconduct, ensure accountability while protecting stakeholders at the same time, and if you are not following those standards, there is a problem.

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Establishing clear policies and codes of conduct.

Documents like these should outline expected behaviours, define what misconduct is for your business and then explain consequences of any violations. Policies that you write must be accessible to everybody and regularly updated to reflect changes in regulations or laws. Clear guidelines reduce ambiguity and make it much easier to enforce rules consistently. 

Implementing training.

Your employees need to understand what constitutes misconduct and how to respond to situations that may arise as a result. This includes reporting procedures, whistleblower protections, and then potential violations and steps to address them. With regular training sessions, you're able to reinforce organizational expectations as well as demonstrate a proactive approach to compliance.

Monitoring and supervision.

These are both key components when it comes to ensuring compliance. You have to implement oversight mechanisms to detect and prevent misconduct before it escalates. This can involve internal audits as well as performance reviews, and then you can also make sure that you have reporting systems in place that allow employees and stakeholders to raise concerns safely. With consistent monitoring, you're going to show that the organization takes its legal responsibilities seriously at all times and identify any issues early on.

Documentation is a must.

Documenting incidents and responses is important for legal protections in the event of a claim or investigation. Having those records of policies and training can ensure that you have evidence that you acted responsibly. Proper documentation can mitigate an illegal exposure, and it supports your business's position if a dispute does arise later on. 

Learning the law.

If you want to be compliant in your business then you need to understand applicable laws and regulations. Different industries may have specific requirements regarding staff conduct such as anti discrimination rules or safety standards. In a Correctional Facility, for example, there are still legal standards to be upheld. Consulting with legal professionals will ensure that your policies and procedures are aligned correctly.


When you foster a culture of accountability and ethical behaviour, you'll reinforce compliance and your employees will be more likely to follow the rules. Demonstrating integrity and emphasising the importance of ethical conduct makes sure that people see you as the example. 


1.07.2026

Birthday Tribute to My Sister

 2nd Birthday in Heaven

Today is your second birthday in heaven, and even after all this time, my heart still stumbles over the truth that you aren’t here. Two years have passed, yet loving you hasn’t changed at all. If anything, it has only deepened.

I think about who you were your laughter, your warmth, the way your presence made things feel steadier just by being there. I think about the memories we shared, the conversations that shaped me, and the bond that only sisters understand. There are moments when I still reach for the phone, forgetting for a second that heaven holds you now.

So much has happened since you left. Milestones you should have been part of. Moments where I searched the room for you without even realizing I was doing it. There are days I carry my grief quietly, and others when it arrives all at once, heavy and unexpected. Through it all, your absence is felt in ways words can barely hold.

I hope you are surrounded by peace, light, and love beyond anything we can imagine here. I hope you know how often you are spoken of, how deeply you are missed, and how fiercely you are still loved. I like to believe you are watching over us, guiding us in small, unseen ways.

Today, I celebrate you differently. I speak your name out loud. I remember your smile, your strength, your heart. And I let myself feel everything—because love doesn’t end, it simply changes form.

Happy 2nd birthday in heaven, my beautiful sister.
You are gone from my sight, but never from my heart.
Always my sister. Always loved. Always remembered. 🕊️🤍

1.02.2026

Word of the Year



This year, my word is Endure.

To hold out against; sustain without impairment or yielding undergo


It isn’t a word I chose lightly. It’s not soft or easy, and it doesn’t promise comfort. I didn’t choose it because I expect the year ahead to be gentle. I chose it because God has already shown me what endurance truly looks like—and because I know now that I do not walk through hard seasons alone.


Last year, my word was healing. And healing, I learned, is not passive. It doesn’t arrive quietly and tidy everything up. Healing required honesty—honesty with myself and honesty before God. It asked me to sit with grief instead of rushing past it, to bring my exhaustion and heartbreak to Him without pretending I was stronger than I was.


Some prayers last year weren’t pretty or eloquent. Some were simply, “Lord, I can’t do this.” And yet, I was held.


Endurance was already being built in me long before I named it.


To endure is not to suffer endlessly or to push through in your own strength. Scripture reminds us that endurance is formed through trials, not apart from them. It is learned when we lean on God instead of relying on ourselves. True endurance is staying present when life is heavy, trusting that God is still at work even when we cannot see it.


Endure means remaining rooted in faith when answers are slow. It means believing that God’s timing is purposeful, even when it feels painfully delayed. It means continuing to show up—praying, trusting, breathing—when the weight feels unbearable.


Over the past year, I’ve learned that endurance often looks quieter than we expect. It looks like surrender. It looks like rest. It looks like boundaries that protect the life God has entrusted to us. It looks like choosing obedience over fear, even when the next step is unclear.


There were moments when all I could do was place one foot in front of the other and trust that God was guiding my steps, even when the path felt hidden. And He was.


This year, I am not asking God for an easy road. I am asking Him for strength to endure with grace. To keep my heart soft. To remain faithful in the waiting. To trust that He is working in ways I may not understand yet.


Endure is my reminder that God is present in the process—not just the outcome. That He refines, restores, and redeems through perseverance. That even when I am weary, His strength is made perfect in my weakness.


I don’t know what this year will bring. But I know the One who walks with me into it.


And with God’s help, I will endure not by hardening my heart, but by trusting Him with it.


12.31.2025

Looking Back on 2025




2025 was a year that quietly asked everything of me. It wasn’t marked by loud victories or dramatic turning points, but by endurance, growth, grief, and moments of deep meaning that changed me in ways I’ll carry forward.

January began with heaviness and love intertwined. It was my sister’s first birthday in heaven always #38, always missed, always present in my heart. There was something surreal about marking that day without her here, learning how to celebrate and grieve at the same time. January also brought my final kidney surgery, closing a long and exhausting chapter. It felt like my body and spirit were both trying to heal, even while my heart was still very tender.

February brought a bright moment of pride and hope. Brooke was accepted into her education degree. Watching her step into the future she’s worked so hard for reminded me that even in the hardest seasons, life continues to unfold with purpose and promise.

March moved quietly. It wasn’t flashy or memorable on the surface, but it was a month of breathing, adjusting, and simply getting through. Sometimes survival is the achievement.

April surprised me with moments of validation I didn’t know how much I needed. Easter came with its usual mix of reflection and emotion, but it was also during April on Admin Day that I felt genuinely appreciated at work. It mattered more than I expected. Being seen, even briefly, gave me a small but meaningful sense of worth during a year when I often felt stretched thin.

May was full and emotional in the best and hardest ways. We traveled to Portland, Boston, and Colorado, marking our 23rd anniversary along the way. There was laughter, movement, and a reminder of how much life we’ve lived. The month was made even more special by Brooke graduating with her Bachelor of Arts in French and Music, with honors. Watching her walk across that stage was one of the proudest moments of my life  a reminder that love, effort, and perseverance truly matter.

June was when the cracks started to show. Burnout crept in slowly, and like so many times before, I tried to ignore it. I told myself to push through, to keep going, to be strong even as my body and heart were asking for rest.

July brought celebration and reflection as Brooke turned 22. Another year of watching her grow into herself, another reminder of how quickly time moves and how precious these milestones are.

August was softer. My mom came to visit, and her presence brought comfort, familiarity, and grounding. There’s something deeply healing about being with the people who know you in all your seasons.

September was heavy with contrast. Brooke started her education degree  an exciting new chapter while we also learned that David had stage 4 cancer. Joy and fear existed side by side. Life didn’t pause to let us catch our breath; it simply asked us to hold both.

October changed everything. David passed away, and with him, another piece of my heart broke. Losing my sister and then her husband within such a short time reshaped my world completely. Grief became louder, deeper, and unavoidable. Still, we took a small weekend trip for my birthday a gentle attempt to honor life even while mourning it.

November marked a brave step forward. I started a completely new career  a fresh beginning after leaving behind what no longer fit. It was scary, unfamiliar, and necessary. It felt like choosing myself, even while still carrying so much loss.

December closed the year with family gathered for Christmas. It wasn’t perfect or painless, but it was warm, meaningful, and rooted in togetherness. The empty spaces were felt, but so was the love that remains.

2025 was not the year I imagined  but it was a year that changed me. It taught me about resilience, about letting go, about starting again, and about how love continues even after unimaginable loss. I didn’t just survive this year. I learned, I grew, and I kept going. And that matters more than anything.
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