Terri's Thoughts- Be Kind

Be Kind

We often hear rumors of other bloggers being "bullied" ( for lack of better word), by other bloggers, this really reeally upsets me.
Are we adults or are we kids...
Who cares what other bloggers eat, wear, dress their kids in, it is their life.
I know there is a website that is set up just to bad mouth other bloggers, I was curious one day so I went to check it out, I was literally sick with what I was reading, I was very thankful for the X on the page.

Why must women be so mean, why must they bully... they are the first to discuss other kids bullying kids at school but they are doing the exact same thing. Who cares of Blogger A, has 10,000 followers and Blogger B has 100- it DON'T MATTER.

I have a challenge to you- instead of looking for ways to complain and grumble about a particular blogger, find 5 bloggers that you have never commented on before, leave them a compliment and let's get this go viral, it will make you feel so GOOD.. GO find 5 bloggers now


  1. Hi Terri,
    I must first appollogise to you for not visiting for so long. I really love your blog and especially the above article. I have put it in my blog as well, and let us hope that the love and kindness becomes a way with us all.
    I hope that you have a wonderful 2014.
    I hope that you have a wonderful day.
    Love and best wishes.
    P.S. of to give some love and kindness to a few people that I think need it especially at the moment.
    Thank you.

  2. I rarely see anyone being rude, but when I do, I hightail it out of there quick. I want no part of it.

    Happy Thursday to you, and I love your 'find 5' idea!

  3. The negativity on some blogs is disheartening. I think for some, blogging has become a huge competition and it's sad. As Rosey said, I want no part of that. I want to blog for the sheer enjoyment of it and whether I follow the 'rules' or not...shouldn't matter...I'm here to make genuine connections and to share a part of me.

    I love your idea of encouraging five bloggers...that is what I am trying to do. I want to leave meaningful comments on other blogs and really take the time to get to know the people behind the blog. That, in my opinion is what blogging is all about.


  4. It amazing me (in not a good way) how it is "OK" in todays society to be mean and disrespectful online. Comparing ourselves to each other only tears us down. Love the ideal of helping to build each other UP!

  5. What a wonderful challenge--I love to blog about paying it forward and kindness--because we need more of that in the world. It's free and priceless at the same time!! have a great 2014!!

  6. I so agree with you! I had no clue there's a website set up that talks about other bloggers - how disappointing and disgusting! I love your challenge and am headed to do so right now!! It's time for people to start being more kind and less petty and jealous!

  7. It is very sad how mean people can be to one another. It makes me wonder what is going on in their life that they are so negative. Thankfully, all the bloggers I know are wonderful kind people, who are quick to extend a helping hand to others. That is a wonderful thing to see.
    Great idea on passing it on!

  8. Thank you - its so sad how badly people treat each other - thank you for your boldness in posting this!

  9. I did the same thing you did and checked out that site, I was so shocked by what I was reading and felt like I was back in grade school only worse, at least when I was in grade school bullying was not recognized, today there is no excuse for it


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