5.28.2026

The Effortless Summer Statement

 

We are all looking for the perfect Summer beach vacation bag, something that will complete our outfits and make us feel complete, I found the best one at Dokibags

Woven Details That Change the Vibe

A woven straw tote can look very different depending on the weave. Tight, even weaving feels cleaner and more polished for city looks; chunkier or open weaves feel breezier and more beach-forward. If you love minimalist outfits, a textured woven tote adds depth without adding color.

The Practical Side of Pretty

Think about how you’ll actually use it: shoulder drop that sits comfortably over a light jacket, a base that doesn’t collapse when set down, and enough structure so it doesn’t turn into a floppy basket once you add items.



What to Pack: The “Summer Daily Kit”

A woven straw tote shines when it carries the essentials plus a little extra: sunglasses case, sunscreen, wallet, phone, keys, lip balm, a small pouch, and a water bottle. For travel days, it’s also great for a paperback, charger, and a compact scarf.

A Straw Tote Bag instantly makes an outfit feel lighter and more seasonal. The natural texture reads relaxed but intentional perfect when you want “vacation energy” without dressing up.

Outfit Formulas That Always Work

  • Resort look: linen set + slides + straw tote
  • Weekend casual: white tee + denim + woven tote
  • Brunch polish: midi dress + sandals + structured straw tote
    Natural straw tones pair especially well with white, beige, denim blue, and black.

Small Features That Make It Feel “Better”

Lined interiors help keep smaller items from snagging in the weave, and a secure closure keeps your tote looking neat when you’re on the move. If you prefer a cleaner silhouette, choose a woven tote that holds its shape at the corners.

 


5.27.2026

The Sacred Thread

 This is one that I am excited to watch. The Sacred Thread is a cinematic documentary series exploring the Lord’s Prayer through the historical, cultural, geographical, and literary world in which Jesus first spoke it. Hosted by Brad Gray and featuring insights from scholars including N.T. Wright, the series takes viewers across biblical landscapes to uncover the deeper meaning and context behind one of the most well-known prayers in Scripture.

Through cinematic storytelling and accessible scholarship, the series invites audiences to see Scripture with fresh eyes and rediscover the richness, depth, and relevance of the Biblical text.
You can watch the trailer here
The Sacred Thread is now available to stream on Angel.
#TheSacredThreadMIN & @streamingonangel

5.26.2026

just one more- movie trailer

Jess is caught in the grip of opioid addiction, searching for relief that only pulls her further into a painful cycle. Everything begins to change when she crosses paths with Charles—a dying man who spends his final days praying that he might be used by God “just one more time” to help someone in need.

Through an unexpected connection, a growing sense of community, and the quiet pull of faith, Jess is forced to face her past, her choices, and the true meaning of freedom. As Charles holds onto hope for one last purpose, Jess stands at a turning point that could change everything.

Just One More is now available to stream on Angel watch it today.  You can watch the trailer here

Find out more info here 
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5.20.2026

The Lost Healer

I wanted to share this Kickstarter project with you. It's an original, Christian-themed fantasy film about a brother and sister who must free their people from the tyrant who killed their father, but their only hope lies with a knight from the enemy ranks. If you're a fan of Narnia or Lord of the Rings, I think you'll really enjoy it! You can watch their epic proof of concept short for free and support the film here: LINK 

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5.14.2026

Types of Fences

People build fences around their hearts for different reasons. Most of the time, those fences are not built out of anger they are built out of pain. When someone has been hurt, betrayed, bullied, abandoned, or constantly let down, they learn to protect themselves the best way they know how. Some people become guarded without even realizing it. Others build walls so strong that nobody can get close enough to hurt them again.

Over time, I started realizing that there are different kinds of “heart fences” people build, and each one tells a story about trust, fear, and survival.

Privacy Fence

This is the fence where people can get in, but only after proving themselves first. You do not let people in easily because you remember what it felt like when someone broke your trust before. The fence is tall, solid, and difficult to climb.

People with this fence often appear closed off, distant, or even unfriendly. I have had friends tell me that when they first met me, they thought I was one of the crabbiest people around. The truth is, I was not trying to be rude I just did not trust easily. When you have been hurt enough times, you start studying people before allowing them close to you. You look for signs that they might leave, lie, or hurt you too.

The privacy fence is not about hating people. It is about protecting your peace.

Picket Fence

The picket fence is the easiest one to break through. This is the person who opens up quickly. You start hanging out with someone and before long, you are telling them your secrets, your fears, your dreams, and your pain. You trust fast because part of you wants to believe people are good.

Sometimes that trust leads to meaningful friendships and deep connections. But sometimes the wrong person gets through that fence. They take your vulnerability and use it against you. They break promises, share things they should not, or disappear when you need them most.

That kind of betrayal changes people.

Many people who start with a picket fence eventually begin rebuilding into something stronger because they learn that not everyone deserves full access to their heart.

Chain Fence

This is the strongest fence of them all.

The chain fence is built after deep hurt. This is the person who trusts no one. No matter what people say or do, the fence stays locked tight. Compliments bounce off. Kindness feels suspicious. Love feels temporary.

People on the outside may think this person is cold, but most of the time they are exhausted. They are tired of being disappointed. Tired of being hurt. Tired of believing people who eventually prove them wrong.

The hardest part about the chain fence is that it protects you from pain, but it can also block out healing, friendship, and connection. When nobody can get in, loneliness starts settling in beside the safety.

The Truth About Fences

The truth is, almost everyone has some kind of fence around their heart. Some are small. Some are nearly impossible to break through. And many of those fences were built because of bullying, betrayal, rejection, or emotional pain people carried silently for years.

That is why kindness matters more than most people realize.

You never truly know what someone has survived before you met them. The quiet person may be fighting trust issues. The angry person may have been deeply wounded. The person who pushes everyone away may secretly want someone to stay.

Sometimes people are not difficult because they want to be. Sometimes they are simply protecting the broken places nobody else can see.

5.12.2026

Online Bullying Is Real — And Its Effects Don’t Stay Online

Online Bullying is real and it is not just between kids anymore. 

There’s a dangerous idea that still gets repeated far too often:

“It’s just online.”
“Just log off.”
“Don’t read the comments.”

But online bullying is real, and for millions of people, the emotional damage follows them long after the screen turns off.

The internet has become part of everyday life. People study online, work online, build friendships online, and express themselves online. Social media profiles, group chats, gaming communities, and comment sections are not separate from real life anymore they are part of real life. That means the harassment that happens there carries real emotional and psychological consequences.

What Online Bullying Looks Like

Online bullying, often called cyberbullying, can take many forms:

  • Spreading rumors or edited images

  • Sending hateful messages

  • Public humiliation in comments or group chats

  • Threats and intimidation

  • Excluding someone socially online

  • Harassing people repeatedly through anonymous accounts

  • Recording or sharing embarrassing moments without consent

Sometimes it happens openly for everyone to see. Other times it happens privately through direct messages, where the victim may feel trapped and isolated.

Unlike traditional bullying, online harassment can follow someone everywhere. A person can leave school or work for the day, but their phone keeps buzzing. Notifications become reminders that the abuse never fully stops.

The Emotional Impact Is Serious

People often underestimate how deeply words online can affect someone. Constant insults, ridicule, and humiliation can lead to:

  • Anxiety

  • Depression

  • Low self-esteem

  • Sleep problems

  • Social withdrawal

  • Panic attacks

  • Fear of expressing opinions

  • Suicidal thoughts

For teenagers especially, online spaces are deeply connected to identity and belonging. Being targeted publicly can feel devastating. A hateful comment seen by hundreds of people can leave lasting emotional scars.

Adults are not immune either. Online bullying affects creators, workers, students, gamers, activists, and everyday users. Many people silently carry stress from harassment while pretending it doesn’t bother them.

“Just Ignore It” Doesn’t Solve the Problem

Telling victims to “ignore it” shifts responsibility away from the bully and onto the person being harmed.

Most people cannot simply ignore repeated attacks, especially when:

  • Their reputation is being damaged

  • Friends or classmates are joining in

  • Personal information is being shared

  • The harassment becomes threatening

  • The abuse is constant

Silence often protects bullies more than victims.

Why People Bully Online

The internet creates distance and anonymity. Some people say things online they would never say face-to-face because they feel protected behind a screen.

Others bully for attention, popularity, revenge, or entertainment. In some online cultures, cruelty is normalized and rewarded with likes, reposts, or laughs.

But “it was a joke” does not erase harm.

What Needs to Change

Platforms, schools, parents, and communities all have roles to play in addressing online bullying.

We need:

  • Better moderation systems

  • Faster reporting responses

  • Stronger digital education

  • More empathy online

  • Real consequences for harassment

  • Safe spaces for victims to speak up

Most importantly, people need to stop treating online cruelty as less serious simply because it happens digitally.

Final Thoughts

Words on a screen come from real people and affect real lives.

Online bullying is not “fake drama” or “just internet stuff.” It can damage confidence, mental health, relationships, and even someone’s sense of safety. The emotional wounds are real, even if they are invisible.

The internet has the power to connect people, support communities, and spread kindness. But that only happens when people choose empathy over cruelty.

Behind every username is a human being
and that should never be forgotten.

5.04.2026

24 Years



 Happy 24th Anniversary to my husband 🤍

Twenty-four years. When I say that out loud, it almost doesn’t feel real. That’s twenty-four years of building a life together of growing up, growing stronger, and sometimes growing through things we never expected. It’s years filled with laughter, memories, lessons, and moments that have quietly shaped who we are today.

We’ve lived a whole lifetime inside these years. We’ve had seasons where everything felt easy and full of light, and seasons where things felt heavy and uncertain. But through it all, we kept going. Side by side, even when it wasn’t perfect especially when it wasn’t perfect.

Marriage isn’t just about the highlight reel. It’s about the ordinary days, the small moments, the unspoken understanding, and sometimes even the silence. It’s about choosing each other, over and over again even when it’s hard, even when it would be easier not to.

You have been such a big part of my story. You’ve seen me at my best and my worst, and somehow, we’ve still made it through all these years. There’s something powerful about that kind of history about knowing someone so deeply, and still being here together after everything life has thrown our way.

Twenty-four years of memories the kind you can’t recreate, the kind that live in little moments and big milestones. The kind that remind me that no matter what, this life we built is real.

Today isn’t just about celebrating what we have it’s about acknowledging everything it took to get here. The effort, the patience, the love, and even the struggles. Because all of it matters. All of it is part of our story.

I don’t know what the future holds, and I won’t pretend that love alone makes everything easy. But I do know that these 24 years have meant something. They’ve been significant. They’ve been ours.

So today, I pause and reflect. On us. On everything we’ve been through. On everything we’ve built.

Happy 24th anniversary.


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