Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people.

Friendships. If you have a good one, it tends to last long, stay honest, and withstand the inevitable change that time and circumstance provides – that's more than you can say for most relationships.
I recognize that friendships do have their testing moments. But these very moments that test the friendship are the same ones that prove and strengthen them.
Basically, my friendships aren't always easy and they certainly aren't always perfect, but they're made of a special kind of love that only comes from wanting to hang out with a person all the time without any intention of kissing them.

Moving here 3 years ago meant leaving my Best friend back home, it was so hard to know that I had no idea when I could see her again, it has been three years, and I have not seen her since I left, it was very hard for me, we saw each other each week if not more then that, I know we can FaceTime but it isn't the same 

The past several months I have realized our "best" friend relationship has pretty much ended, we never talk anymore.. I text her and she is very busy and I am to. 
It just isn't the same and hasn't been for a long time and I will never live back home so I realize it is over
She will hold a special part in my heart forever and for always 

That being said I have made a new friend here, we are really having fun being friends and I asked her to be my best friend, we make a point to see each other each week, we go to the same church, we talk every day via texting ( as neither of us like to talk on the phone), when we are together, we laugh a lot and her dog loves me ;) 

She is an incredible person- she is a wonderful nurse, a person who is sure of her as well, she is beautiful, she is a christian who attends my church, she gives so much of her self to make sure her friends are ok, she loves people hence why she makes such a great nurse. She is stylish, loves shoes, tea and notebooks- how can we not be friends.

I feel like God put her in my life at just the right time, just when I needed a friend like her. Thank you Cristie, it means the world to me to be BFF's with you. 


  1. I had the realization five years after moving that my best friend was no longer my best friend. But it was okay, it was just another time in our lives. Perhaps, we will reconnect again in the future,

  2. It's amazing how relationships change over time. I think the only person I have ever considered my "best friend" is a dear friend from college. I don't see her often, but when I do, we pick up where we left off. It's been 15 years since I've met this person and I feel so fortunate to have her in my life.

  3. Would you believe me if I told you that I've had the same friend since I was 4 years old?! That's one of them...the others I've know since elementary school and a few since grade 9. I consider them all VERY good friends...and also very lucky to have them in my lives to this day after so many years!


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