Sex should be a part of your marriage, it makes everything better ;)

1) VARIETY - When it comes to your sex-life, don't always do everything the same way every time. The word “boring” or "routine" should never be a part of your sex life.
2) FREQUENCY - It is impossible to say how much is enough, that all depends on the couple. The main thing is making sure you and your spouse are on the same page when it comes to frequency.
3) BE ENGAGED - Your spouse does not want you to be passive but wants you to enjoy things as well. Don’t see sex as a job or obligation, but as a privilege.
4) COMMUNICATION - Talk to your spouse about what you like and don’t like in the bedroom. 
5) PRIVACY - Privacy should be a priority, so put a lock on your bedroom door, and then find some time to sneak off together. Also, understand that it's okay to schedule sex, and then fight to keep that date.


  1. it's all about keeping the romance alive in the marriage :D

  2. I think communication is one of the most important things you can have in a relationship. I HAVE to speak my mind or it will drive me crazy. I know so many people that internalize everything and it makes matters worse!

  3. We are really struggling in this area right now. It is so hard for us to find some time alone with my husband's work schedule sending him to bed before the kids. But people need to remember God created it. It is supposed to be part of our lives/marriages. If we have God honoring relations with our spouses, it is beautiful and will draw us closer.

  4. This is a important area as is communicating. Solid marriage advice as always!

  5. Very very important! All great tips and thoughts!

  6. There are times when red box is my bff. I find a "new movie" for the kids to be engaged and my husband and I have a solid 30 minutes uninterrupted in our room. It helps that the youngest is 6 too. But we make it a priority because it blesses our marriage.

  7. Morning can also be a great time for some intimacy, before the kids are up and you have a little more energy than the night before.

  8. All 5 of these are so important for a healthy sex life. Thanks for the reminder.

  9. Sometimes it is hard for women to be engaged because our minds can do more than one thing at a time. I find that I need to concentrate on the moment for a minute and then I can completely be engaged.


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