I know we all will fight and argue in marriage or any relationship, but we need some rules in place if we are going to argue
1. Respect your spouse.
2. Never threaten divorce. NEVER!
3. Don't bring up your spouse's past mistakes. Forgive & move on.
4. Listen more than you talk.
5. Don't lose your temper. It never helps anything.
6. Don't try and "win" the argument. You're on the same team.
7. Seek first to understand ... and then to be understood.