When people talk about going to see grandparents, they’re referring to their children seeing their grandparents. But what about yours? All those summers spent at Grandma’s house have long since gone, but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't spend time with your grandparents now. In fact, it’s probably a great idea to spend as much time with them as you possibly can as they get even older!
Your grandparents have lived life long before you even existed. They had love and laughter, fun and tragedy, and you can learn so much from them. Parenting has changed massively since they were doing it, but that doesn't mean that they’re not capable of love or understanding. You only need to read blogs like Karrol's Korner to know that grandparents are getting with the times! Your own grandparents may not be as young on the outside, but that’s all cladding. They’re still vibrant on the inside, so let’s check out five solid reasons you should be visiting your grandparents regularly.
- The best reason for a visit is to tell them you love them and you’re thinking about them. A simple “I love you” is enough to remind them that you are here for them and you will be there for them as long as they live. They may not be around for very long, and you need to make the most of it!
- Your grandparents need your help. If they’re not in a home yet, then there’s every chance that they could use help with the shopping and the cleaning. You can volunteer your time to give them some company, too. They need to know that they are loved, and you can make sure that they do with a regular visit and helping where they need you.
- Your grandparents love to be proud of you. The only thing that they want for you is your happiness, and you should do what you can to live up to that. If you know you’re making them proud, go and show them. You have to remember that even though they are not your parents, you wouldn’t be around if not for them.
- To put it bluntly, grandparents are often on borrowed time. If yours are in their Eighties right now, then they won’t be around for many more years. You shouldn't visit grandparents just because you’re afraid of them dying, but to make the most of the time that you have before the curtain calls. You can visit and make it a positive thing; all you need to do is put in the time!
- Your grandparents have so much knowledge and wisdom about the world, and you should use as much time as possible to soak this up before you can’t anymore. The time that you spend with them could be spent learning about their history and their take on the world. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and learn their best recipes - they’re there to help and advise, guide and love you.
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